A 73-year-old sex worker has shared one of the biggest reasons married men seek pleasure outside the home – and the simple shift she believes could stop a man from straying.

Caroline Vee spent four decades living a celibate life before a late-life “sexual awakening” at 57 completely changed her future – eventually leading the now-73-year-old into a career as an escort.

“I became an escort in 2017,” Vee – whose real name is Siobhan Burt – said during an appearance on the Tea At Four podcast with hosts Billy and Lauren.

“When I became a born-again Christian and we couldn’t have sex, it was like – ‘Well, I didn’t enjoy it in my younger years anyway, so it’s not going to be a loss,’” the “Busty Granny” explained.

“So that’s how I managed to go through the 40 years. Partly obviously because it wasn’t allowed in the church, but also because I didn’t have any interest.”

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Recently, the grandmother-turned-content creator fielded questions from callers on the podcast’s OnlyGrans Hotline, offering candid advice about intimacy, sexual insecurities and the relationship struggles many couples quietly wrestle with behind closed doors.

During one conversation, a 25-year-old caller named Lucy explained that her boyfriend was considering ending their relationship after learning about her “wild” sexual history.

“My boyfriend is considering breaking up with me after learning about my past sexual kinks,” the caller said. “Just because I had a few wild years exploring my BDSM kink, he thinks we’re no longer compatible. What should I do?”

Vee responded with humor before shifting into more serious advice.

“Just going to put you on hold and I’ll come back shortly – after I’ve killed him,” she joked.

But she quickly pivoted to communication and honesty in relationships, arguing that being open about personal preferences should not automatically make it a dealbreaker.

“I mean the fact that she’s admitted to it is good, because she’s being honest,” she said about Lucy. “If he doesn’t like it, then ditch!” Vee said.

‘Have a conversation’

At the same time, she suggested that the caller try to understand why her boyfriend felt uncomfortable before making any major decisions about the relationship.

“I mean, have a conversation by all means, but maybe try to find out why he doesn’t like it,” she explained. “Has he got a problem with it or are you hoping that he will participate and join in with it? Or is it something that you’ve done, experimented with it and you’re done with that now and want to move on. There’s all kinds of reasons why somebody would feel insecure about it.”

The woman explained couples shouldn’t immediately shut down conversations about sexual experimentation, especially if both partners are willing to explore each other’s interests together.

“If he agrees to give some light BDSM a try. Find out what he likes and maybe try one of those, because he’s the one that’s insecure,” she said.

“And communicate and ask if they enjoyed it. If they say no, then maybe you’re not compatible and shouldn’t be together.”

‘Women are stuck with missionary’

As the conversation continued, Vee revealed one of the biggest reasons married men often seek out her services in the first place.

According to her, many clients are not necessarily looking to leave their marriages, but instead feel unable to talk openly about fantasies, curiosity or intimacy with their spouses.

“Very common,” Vee said while discussing married clients exploring unfulfilled fantasies.

“It’s the men that want to explore, but the women don’t want to. The women are stuck with missionary – they don’t want to do any other positions.”

Vee then shared a personal anecdote that left her stunned.

“I’ll never forget when I mentioned to my sister about a 69, and she’d never heard of it,” she said. “And I’m thinking ‘but you’ve been married for 40 years, have you only done missionary?! Isn’t it boring to keep doing the same position night after night, week after week?’”

‘Depends on the shape of the man’

Despite the provocative nature of some of the discussion, much of Vee’s advice centered less on shock value and more on communication, chemistry, and physical compatibility.

“You’ve got to find what works for you,” said Vee, who reportedly earns thousands a month as an escort.

“Guys say to me, ‘what’s your favorite position?’ And I don’t really have one because it depends on the shape of the man and his penis. Because different positions work differently on those two factors.”

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